What is True Love?

1. True love implies three characteristics: 1.  total acceptance of others,  2. No expectation from others 3. Self respect to others.

2. The other person you love may be with any character. There is no room for dislikes in love.  Totally accept whatever their nature is.  Sun,  air, rain and trees don’t see the nature of persons. They shower love over all without any difference.

3. I fulfill your demand and you should fulfil my demand.  This is business.  I bring  you up today and you should take care of in my old age.  This is business, not true love.  True love has no expectation from others in the present or in future.  True love expects no changes in others.  Teachers expect changes from students.  Parents expect changes from their children.  In the name of love, they want others to be some role models,  to be somebody else,  to as they want but not to be as they are.  True love never expects others to change,  never expects anything from others. “Learning is modification of behaviour” is a wrong definition. To learn how to be yourself and let others be themselves. “ is the true learning

4. Self respect is the expression of true love.  Whoever the person may be,  your senior or junior, father or child, billionaire or beggar,  prime minister or servant, true love sticks to self-respect. Obedience is a polite word, cunning word used for slavery.  If they obey my words,  it means they respect me.  If they don’t,  I will scold them,  punish them for their disobedience that is indiscipline. Teachers who expect respect never respect their students and don’t even allow them to sit before them. Parents expect respect from their children and demand them obey what they say. True love worships selfrespect of others. It never scolds, imposes, insults,  punishes, threatenes to stop its support and misuses its power to take revenge on those who disobey.